May 6th, 2007
At the bottom of everything we do, there will always be this fundamental question: Is it worth the effort?
Is it worth the effort to try and improve oneself, to learn some skill or gain some measure of wisdom? Is it worth the effort to get to know this person? Is it worth the effort to stick around — or to leave? Is it worth the effort to be strong and hopeful when life can just seem so damn cruel sometimes? And should I even get out of bed this morning? After all, what’s it all for, anyway?
The haunting reality is that we’re never really sure. We can ignore the question. We can give a group, nation state, or spiritual leader the authority to answer the question for us. We can even confront it directly, turning ourselves into metaphysical Don Quixotes, losing ourselves in a mad and romantic fantasy that one day we will grab hold of the secret, that once and for all, we will be certain!
But the monster will always lurk somewhere in the corner of our minds, waiting for signs of weakness, waiting for us to ask the question again, this time without the protection of an answer. It’s a franchise horror movie villain like Freddy Krueger or Jason Voorhees. We can fight it off for a while, but it will never truly die. There will always be the possibility of a sequel.
The next time someone asks you whether or not you’re a spiritual person, check your pulse. Is your heart still beating? You just might find the truest, most genuine faith in that space between one beat and the next.
And if so, what sense is there in asking whether you need to be more spiritual or less spiritual or whether you’ve chosen the right flavor of spirituality? Wouldn’t most genuinely spiritual people agree that, so long as it keeps the monster at bay, it is good enough?
If I could make one humble suggestion, however, it would be to measure any sort of spiritual growth by your capacity to feel joy rather than your capacity to endure pain.
It’s not that one way is any more correct than the other. It’s just that there are more than enough gloomy little people running around, proclaiming that evil is abound, the end is near, and that you need to sacrifice and purify yourself for what comes next. It’s great if such cynicism works for them, but you must always keep in mind that they really don’t know any better than you what it’s all about — no matter what their credentials are or who they pretend to speak for. So why not follow a path that makes you happy?
Perhaps whatever it is that created you requires nothing more from you than your willingness to just do your thing for as long as you can.
For those of us who seek the Truth, God, or Enlightenment, do we seek these for their own sake, or do we seek them because seeking is just our thing? After all, the Truth is right in front of us, God is present in us and all around us, and what exactly is holding us back from Enlightenment?
Maybe there is nothing to seek. If it makes life seem more worthwhile, then seeking is, of course, a very important activity — but the person who does not seek is no less spiritual, no less aware of what’s actually going on. Because none of us really knows what’s actually going on. It’s all guesswork.
Could the proverbial seeker learn a thing or two from the proverbial couch potato? Sure, he may lack ambition and finesse, but he’s fully absorbed in what he’s doing, and he makes no apologies for it. There’s something sort of heroic and noble about that. He’s fighting the monster like everyone else, and he’s not even breaking a sweat.
This whole thing we’re doing seems fundamentally odd. Why have any of it? Forget about trying to find the meaning of life. Rather, ask yourself: what possible meaning could it have, in and of itself? And behind this question, you’ll find the monster baring its sharp, white teeth.
I walk along some random street and hear the splish-splash of rain drowning out every other sound. Hundreds of strange faces hustle about with the most sincere importance, each hiding an entire universe of memory and longing. The street we’re standing on turns upon this gigantic sphere orbiting around a huge ball of fire that orbits, along with other huge balls of fire, around some incredibly massive center. That center is one of many such centers, all of them suspended in an incomprehensibly vast pool of nothingness. In this moment, I know all I need to know about the meaning of life. This is it. This, right here, is the answer. I know also that as soon as I try to put it into words, to use it to explain my past or to convince myself of any particular future, that it will disappear as quickly and mysteriously as it came.
There is a spectacular dance going on here, and I am reminded that no one who really enjoys dancing does it for any particular purpose.
As I look deep into the monster’s eyes, I discover the soul of the savior, for they are one in the same — yin and yang. I see that life springs from poetry as much as poetry springs from life, that there is a certain seductive cadence to it all. I breath in and I feel the beginning. I breath out and I feel the end. I see the end become the beginning even as the beginning becomes the end, and I know!
I know that it’s all moving along as it should. There’s no urgent need for me to fix it, to tamper with it, to somehow make it better than it is right now. So far, it has done an alright job on its own. It flows naturally from one perfect moment to the next for anyone who cares to notice.
And now, if I sit very still and pay attention to what’s going on around me, I might start to wonder where exactly it is that “I” begin and end. Am I my thoughts? Am I my body? Am I my future or past? Am I the person I think I am, or who others think I am? Am I all of these things? Or am I none of them?
If I dig down really deep to that core essence that has somehow stayed with me, unchanged, through twenty seven years of constant change, what will I find? How can it be so familiar and yet so elusive?
In silence, beyond words and thought, I touch this essence for the briefest moment, and I am at peace. My eyes open and I look upon the world with a new sense of wonder.
In every face, every tree, every stone, every brush of wind, in the sunlight and in the darkness, there is that same essence, unchanging and eternal, which is found in the depths of my own Self. It is in the rise and fall, in the creation and destruction. It is all things. And it is none of them.
Every now and then, I’m asked what I think heaven will be like, and I always find it to be a very difficult question to answer. To be honest, I don’t worry too much about whether there is one or, if there is, whether I’ve been good enough to go there when I die. What I fear is that I won’t know I’m in heaven, that I could walk right through paradise without even taking a second glance at it. What a shame that would be.
And there’s a nagging suspicion that this is exactly what I’ve been doing for all this time.
So I sometimes imagine that on some very ordinary day, I’ll be walking along and be struck suddenly by a strange feeling. There I’ll be, standing in some familiar place, realizing that I had never recognized it for what it really was until now. And I will know that I am there.
When that moment arrives, I plan to have a good, long laugh at my ignorance — and then, at last, to become forever lost in the dance.